Old Fashion Still Good

By Reverend Paul N. Papas II

April 3, 2017

Every time I think that I have heard it all, there comes another one. Now it appears that people, who are hell-bent on indoctrinating everyone that up is down, and down is up, are upset with the Vice President. Why, because he will not have dinner with a women alone who is not his wife and without his wife being present. Nor will he go to an event that serves booze, if his wife is absent. To the Vice President and every other man who thinks the same way, I say BRAVO!

Ever since God and prayer were kicked out of schools we have witnessed, at an ever increasing rapid rate, the decline of the family. With the decline of the family came a myriad of social, political, and metal health issues.

Call me old fashioned, or politically incorrect, if you’d like. I was taught men should stand up when a woman entered the room and hold the door for women and elders. Today there are those who would attach a negative connotation to these actions. To those I say “it is mind over matter”. I don’t mind, and they don’t matter.

If you choose to stand in quicksand rather than on a rock, don’t be surprised when you’re soon buried under a lot of dirt.

By refusing to have dinner with a woman without his wife being present and not going to an event that serves booze if his wife is absent, a husband communicates his dedication to his wife alone, and avoids any appearance of evil. The husband’s dedication to his wife prevents inappropriate  actions on his part that could lead to the break up of his family. This can also be said for a wife’s dedication to her husband in the same manner.  Family break ups, which lead to a divorce, are only good for making divorce lawyers rich.

Family break ups often lead to some level of short or long term emotional, mental health and trust issues.

Family break ups can be also caused by, or lead to abuse issues.  Abuse issues often lead to some level of short or long term emotional, mental health and trust issues. Abusive relationships, or encounters, affect a lot more than the abuser and the abused. People who have been abused often become abusers.

Abuse can be caused by or lead to involvement with the multi-billion dollar porn industry. Pornography objectifies and dehumanizes men and women. Pornography destroys relationships as it creates a false understanding of interpersonal relationships.

The multi billion dollar pornography industry is tied to the multi billion dollar sex trafficking industry which seeks to satisfy the unrealistic needs created and supported by the pornography industry.

A husband who refuses to dine with a women without his wife present and refuses to attend a function that serves booze without his wife present guards against allowing any temptation to break his wedding vows. The same can be said for a wife who refuses to dine with a man without her husband present or attend a function that serves booze without her husband present. Couples who guard against temptation are less likely to end up in divorce court and all the tragedies of breaking up a family.

Couples who are dedicated to each other will work through issues either by themselves or with the help of another person, as the need may arise.

I applaud those couples who show this type of dedication to each other, gentlemen who hold doors for ladies, stands when a lady enters the room, and helps her with her chair as she is seated.   Call me old fashioned. Old fashioned is still good.

Reverend Paul N. Papas II is a Pastoral Counselor with Narrow Path Ministries (MA and AZ), and Founder of the Family Renewal Center (AZ) www.narrowpathministries.org and www.familyrenewalcenteraz.org

14 Responses to Old Fashion Still Good

  1. Yes indeed. Preach it!

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  2. Indeed! Only a fool would ignore failed relationship stats and mock a man who actually respects his wife/marriage! :-/ 💜 Jackie@KWH

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  3. catsNjammer says:

    And then there are the children…who are often hurt the most and least considered by courts. They are usually affected emotionally if not mentally for the rest of their lives in some way. Protection of the family ought to be the number one priority of society. Isn’t that how societies began? Wonderful post, I enjoyed reading very much!

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    • You are correct, the basic unit God set out was the family. A strong family unit that worships God together is what the devil has been working to destroy. Some now believe our children belong to the state and we have no say in their upbringing. Again you are correct, children are usually the most affected and hurt. I agree with you, protection of our children should be our number one priority.

      The hope is one day programs such as the Family Renewal Center which helps the abused, the abuser, and those affected by abuse (not in the same setting) will no longer be needed.

      Thank you for your comment and compliment.

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  4. Just last night, my husband and I were watching a TV show where a manager met alone with a woman who was complaining. Right away, my husband- a former manager – said that he would never be alone with a woman. Apart from the relationship factor, modern women lie and accuse men of sexual harassment to get what they want. Dishonesty – as well as infidelity – have been adopted as the norm.


    • Thank you for sharing this.

      I commend your husband to say “that he would never be alone with a woman”.

      This is sad but unfortunately true: “Apart from the relationship factor, modern women lie and accuse men of sexual harassment to get what they want. Dishonesty – as well as infidelity – have been adopted as the norm.”

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